It's In His Kiss

When you kiss someone the wealth of your feelings goes into that one single, simple action. Your mouth on theirs and your tongues dueling (if it is of the French variety).

But let me back up just a bit here. There are many kinds of kisses and you do at least one of those a day. The kiss you give to a relative on their cheek or a peck on their lips. The kiss you give to your child. That long held check kiss or on the top of their head, to show your deep feelings and abiding, unconditional love. Every bit of feelings can be expressed in that one encounter. Then you have that deep, passionate kiss you give to a lover. Let's give a definition to the word "lover" shall we?

lov·er

noun \ˈlə-vər\

Definition of LOVER

1

a : a person in love; especially : a man in love with a woman

b plural : two persons in love with each other

2

: an affectionate or benevolent friend

3

: devotee

4

a : paramour

b : a person with whom one has sexual relations 

As you can see by the above definition, a lover is someone with whom you have intense feelings for. Someone with whom you have sex with and who knows you on a sensual level. When I say the word "lover" I am referencing that person who makes your heart race, your blood pump and your breath to hitch. The person who you think about before you fall asleep at night. That is a lover. 

I am NOT referencing a one night stand. Have you ever kissed a one night stand? Someone you just met, have no knowledge of or care for? Typically, no you don't. A one night stand is outside of this post because a one night stand is pure pleasure and never again to be repeated. 

So...back to your lover. Studies show that when kissing your stress level actually decreases and also causes a large part of your brain to become active, thereby causing you to feel happier, more active and less inclined to fight. Kissing even causes your cholesterol to lower.

You know what I like? Those slow, deep kisses that make you sweat, that make your body heat and your train of thought scatter. I like having my body slammed against my partner, my body pressed tightly against his, my arms wrapped around him. I love when he tilts my head and plunges his tongue into my mouth. I love his taste and his touch. I love when he breaks the kiss to take a deep breath before his mouth fuses back to mine. 

When you kiss someone you feel them. Your senses open up to their smell, their taste, their feel. Your body comes alive and you literally explode with senses. You want to know how your man feels about you? It's in his kiss.