Wednesday, July 10, 2013

What Women Want

Everyone once in a while I see a question surface. It typically brings out arguments with one side or the other leaving the conversation hastily. What do Women Want?

I'm fixing to break the girl code. Oh yes, I am going to shatter the code and give you all a nice run down of what a woman wants.

The answer is: It depends on the woman.

Some women want a man who is there for them. Who supports them in their every endeavor. Someone that will hold them when times get rough, wipe away the tears when when she can't hold pain inside any more. She wants someone who is her cheerleader and who is honest enough to tell her when she's screwing up. Who gives her what she needs, in and out of the bedroom. She wants a mate. She wants someone who compliments her personality. What that woman wants is a partner.

Some women want a man who will be there when she gets an itch. When the night is upon us and the house is silent. She wants a man to be her companion and to take care of her needs. She wants someone who will kiss away the pain and make her forget her name. She wants a hot encounter that will steal her breath away. What she wants is a lover who knows his woman isn't looking to mate, but wants that human touch, that male presence to take her to another place.

Some women want both. They want a mate and they want a lover. They want it hot and passionate. They want it sweet and giving. They want to be taken care of and they want to take care of someone. Those are your girls that want the picket fence, the red room of pain and Book of Love.

And some women...some women have it all. They don't want anything except what they already have. They want to wake up and see their love beside them, to kiss their children at night before bed. They want the dirty dishes, the soccer matches and chaos that family life brings. They don't WANT anything because they were lucky in love and lucky to find their mate and lover.

So the next time you ask yourself "What do women want?" You should stop and look at the woman you asking that question of. We don't all want the same thing, but we all want to matter to someone.

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