For me...it's the whole package. When I feel sexy, when I feel confident in what I'm doing and who I'm with...that's what gets me. I can be sitting knitting socks but if the man I am with looks at me and smiles that crooked smile or reaches over and runs his hand down my arm, I'm ready. If I happen to be wearing some very pretty seductive underthings, that's always a plus.
I've always said that in order to seduce a woman, you have to seduce her mind. That is why books such as 50 Shades of Gray are so popular, because they touch that part of a woman that is dormant, give her ideas and desires she didn't think she had, but she is thoroughly seduced by those ideas and that transfers into a new sexiness that their lovers may not have seen before.
Sexy is more than a perfect body. It's more than the way you look. Sexy is an attitude. I don't care if you are a size 2 or a size 22, if you feel sexy, if you radiate confidence then you will BE desired, you will BE looked at in a way you may not even notice. So tell me, what makes YOU feel sexy?
